Indy Barends Biography: Husband, Age, Sons, Net Worth, Career, Height, Parents, Sister

Mendya Barends Sarmanella, professionally known as Indy Barends, is an Indonesian radio DJ, television host, actress, and humorist whose bold, unfiltered style redefined morning talk shows and celebrity interviews.

Co-anchoring Cek & Ricek (1999–2007) with Indra Herlambang, she pioneered a brash, no-holds-barred format that blended gossip, social critique, and live audience energy, earning her the moniker “Ratu Radio.”

Profile

• Full Name: Mendya Barends Sarmanella
• Stage Name: Indy Barends
• Born: 15, January 1972
• Age: 53 years old
• Birthplace: Bogor, West Java, Indonesia
• Nationality: Indonesian
• Occupation: Radio DJ, Television Host, Actress, Humorist
• Height: 1.73m
• Parents: Hiras Paimatua Sidabutar and Betty Khusen
• Siblings: Miranda
• Spouse: Benyamin Sarmanella (m. 2001)
• Children: Raphael Benaya Sarmanella, Manuel Tobias Sarmanella
• Relationship: Married
• Net Worth: $5 million

Early Life and Education

Mendya Barends Sarmanella was born on January 15, 1972, in Bogor, West Java, Indonesia.

Her father, Hiras Paimatua Sidabutar, a Batak civil servant, and mother, Betty Khusen, of Dutch-Indonesian descent, instilled a multicultural outlook that shaped her outspoken persona.

She grew up with a younger sister, Miranda, in a middle-class household.

Indy completed high school at Regina Pacis Catholic School in Bogor, excelling in debate and theater.

No formal tertiary education is documented; she entered media straight out of high school, training on-air at local radio stations.

She is of mixed Batak and Dutch descent and identifies as Catholic.

Career

Indy Barends burst onto the scene in the mid-1990s as a Hard Rock FM Jakarta DJ, co-hosting the irreverent Rock & Roll Morning Show that blended alternative music with celebrity banter.

Her big break arrived in 1999 with Metro TV’s Cek & Ricek, a live talk show that mixed tabloid scoops, audience call-ins, and unscripted confrontations—pushing boundaries and drawing massive ratings until 2007.

Parallel radio stints on Prambors and I-Radio sharpened her quick wit, while guest spots on Empat Mata and Tonight Show showcased her comedic timing.

The 2010s saw Indy pivot to digital and film: she launched the podcast Indy Barends Show (2018–present), grilling politicians and artists with trademark bluntness, and landed supporting roles in movies like Get Married 3 (2011) and Mika (2013).

She returned to television hosting Hot Kiss (2014–2016) on antv and judged Stand Up Comedy Indonesia (2015).

Business ventures include co-owning the Bogor café chain Kopi Tuku and endorsing beauty brands, leveraging her 1.2 million Instagram followers.

Indy Barends dominates morning radio on Hard Rock FM’s Morning Zone (2023–2025) while her podcast racks up millions of streams.

Recent film cameos in Ghost Writer 2 (2022) and voice work for animated series keep her cinematic footprint alive.

A vocal advocate for mental health and women in media, she mentors young DJs and uses her platform to challenge hypocrisy, ensuring her influence spans generations.

Social Media

• Instagram Handle: @indybarends
• Facebook Handle: Indy Barends

Personal Life

Indy Barends entered into matrimony with businessman Benyamin Sarmanella in a discreet and intimate ceremony held in Jakarta in 2001, which was characterized by its privacy and modesty, reflecting the couple’s desire to keep their personal lives away from public scrutiny.

Since their marriage, they have been blessed with two sons, Raphael Benaya Sarmanella and Manuel Tobias Sarmanella, both of whom have been intentionally shielded from the media and public attention, allowing them to grow up in relative anonymity despite their parents’ public profiles.

Filmography

• Get Married 3 (2011)
• Mika (2013)
• Ghost Writer 2 (2022)

Net Worth

Mendya Barends Sarmanella commands an estimated net worth of $5 million.

Primary revenue streams include Hard Rock FM salaries, podcast sponsorships, Kopi Tuku equity, film residuals, and high-value endorsements.

Property holdings in Bogor and South Jakarta further bolster her wealth.