Jeffery Self Biography: Net Worth, Parents, Books, Husband, Children, Height, TV Shows

Biography

Jeffery Self (born February 19, 1987) is a celebrated American actor, writer, and comedian from Rome, Georgia.

Known for his sharp wit, he starred in the Logo TV sketch comedy series Jeffery & Cole Casserole alongside Cole Escola and appeared in shows like Search Party (as Marc), 30 Rock, and The Horror of Dolores Roach.

Self has authored humor books Fifty Shades of Gay and Straight People: A Spotter’s Guide, and young adult novels A Very, Very Bad Thing and Drag Teen.

He co-wrote and starred in the indie horror/comedy You’re Killing Me. Openly gay, he married actor Augustus Prew in 2018.

American actor and writer
Jeffery Self
Wiki Facts & About Data
Real Name:	Jeffery Self
Born:	19 February 1987 (age 38 years old)
Place of Birth:	Rome, Georgia, United States
Nationality:	American
Education:	N/A
Height:	1.8 m
Parents:	William Self, Margaret Self
Siblings:	N/A
Spouse:	Augustus Prew (m. 2018)
Boyfriend • Partner:	Patrick McDonald (ex.)
Children:	N/A
Occupation:	Actor • Comedian
Net Worth:	$500,000-$2 million (USD)

Early Life & Education

Jeffery Self was born on February 19, 1987, in Rome, Georgia, USA. Growing up in the South, he was immersed in a Southern cultural environment.

Based on his background and the surname “Self,” which is of Anglo-Saxon origin, he is likely of Caucasian ethnicity with possible English or Scottish ancestry. His religious upbringing is not explicitly documented in available sources. Still, given the prevalence of Protestantism in Georgia, it’s reasonable to infer a Christian background, possibly Presbyterian, common in the region.

His parents are William Self and Margaret Self (née Thompson), names that align with common Southern naming conventions. No information confirms the existence of siblings.

For his education, Jeffery attended middle school in Georgia but transitioned to homeschooling afterward. He convinced his parents to allow this shift, partly to avoid the challenges of navigating high school as an openly gay teenager in a Southern community.

Career

Jeffery Self is an American actor, comedian, writer, and producer whose dynamic career spans television, film, digital media, and literature. Born on February 19, 1987, in Rome, Georgia, Self developed a passion for performance early in life, eventually turning that passion into a vibrant and varied professional path.

He made his screen debut in 2009 with a small role in The Book of Ruth: Journey of Faith and gained national attention the same year with a guest appearance on NBC’s 30 Rock, playing Randy Lemon, the eccentric cousin of Tina Fey’s character, Liz Lemon. This memorable role marked his entry into the mainstream television comedy scene.

Self’s big breakthrough came with Jeffery & Cole Casserole, a quirky sketch comedy series he co-created and starred in alongside Cole Escola for Logo TV. Running for two seasons, the show earned a cult following, showcasing Self’s quick wit, sharp satire, and unique comedic voice. He continued his rise in the digital space with Gay of Thrones, a parody web series blending pop culture and queer commentary, in which he appeared as himself.

Throughout his career, Self has taken on a wide range of television roles, from comedic to dramatic. His credits include appearances in Desperate Housewives, 90210, Torchwood, Hot in Cleveland, Shameless, and Difficult People (as the hilarious Carl).

In Search Party, he portrayed the memorable Marc, further proving his versatility. More recent roles include performances in The Horror of Dolores Roach (2023) and the romantic drama Spoiler Alert (2022), as well as films like The High Note (2020), Mack & Rita (2022), and the indie horror-comedy You’re Killing Me (2016), which he co-wrote, produced, and starred in.

As an author, Self has made a mark with two humour books—Fifty Shades of Gay and Straight People: A Spotter’s Guide—as well as two acclaimed young adult novels, Drag Teen and A Very, Very Bad Thing. His forthcoming essay collection, Self-Sabotage (set for release in March 2025), promises an honest and comedic reflection on his Southern upbringing, early career challenges, and personal growth.

Beyond acting and writing, Self has also worked as a host, notably helming MTV’s Scream: After Dark, a companion talk show to the Scream series. He also created and wrote Jeffery Live, a live show that ran for two years. On YouTube, his channel (@JefferySelf) entertains over 19,000 subscribers with his signature brand of absurd, self-aware humour.

Social Media

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• YouTube: JefferySelf

Personal Life

Jeffery Self was born on February 19, 1987, in Rome, Georgia, USA, making him 38 years old as of June 14, 2025.

He is openly gay and has been married to British actor Augustus Prew since January 13, 2018. The couple got engaged on January 8, 2017, after Prew proposed during a hike, and their wedding took place in Culver City, California, with unique suits by Mr. Turk, a technicolor wedding cake, and lawn games.

Self and Prew have no biological or adopted children; a claim suggesting they adopted two children lacks corroboration from credible references and is not supported by their public social media activity.

Self’s height is reported as 5 feet 11 inches (1.8 meters) by some sources, while others list him at 6 feet 1 inch (1.83 meters).

Before his marriage to Prew, Self was in a relationship with Patrick McDonald of Fire Island for approximately three years, with their breakup discussed publicly through Self’s blog, although the specific reasons for the split are not disclosed.

Net Worth

Jeffery Self’s net worth is estimated to be between $500,000 and $2 million, primarily earned through his career as an actor, writer, comedian, and producer.

His income sources include roles in TV shows like Search Party, 30 Rock, and The Horror of Dolores Roach, as well as his work on the Logo TV series Jeffery & Cole Casserole.

Additionally, Self has authored humour books (Fifty Shades of Gay, Straight People: A Spotter’s Guide) and young adult novels (A Very, Very Bad Thing, Drag Teen), contributing to his wealth.

He also co-wrote, produced, and starred in the indie film You’re Killing Me.