In Real Life (band) Bio: Members, Age, Net Worth, Songs, Hiatus, Wives, Kids, Brady Tutton

In Real Life was an American boy band formed in 2017 through the ABC reality competition Boy Band, consisting of Brady Tutton, Chance Perez, Drew Ramos, Sergio Calderon, and Conor Michael Smith.

They became known for their energetic pop-R&B style with tracks like “Eyes Closed” and “Tattoo (How ‘Bout You),” which resonated with a young, diverse fanbase through rich harmonies and relatable themes.

Signed to Hollywood Records, the group released a studio album, several EPs, and multiple singles that charted on iTunes and Billboard, while also gaining visibility through tours and television appearances.

Profile

• Members’ Names: Brady Tutton, Chance Perez, Drew Ramos, Sergio Calderon, Conor Michael Smith
• Stage Name: In Real Life
• Founded: 2017
• Place of Birth: Los Angeles, California
• Origin: United States
• Occupation: Singers, Songwriters, Performers
• Net Worth: $4 million

Early Life & Members

Brady Tutton

Early Life: Raised in a family of performers, Brady started with classical vocal training and acting, joining the Milwaukee Children’s Choir where his talent shone, leading him to audition for Boy Band thinking it was scripted; he differentiated himself by embracing R&B and hip-hop.

• Date of Birth: 7, December 2001
• Age: 23 years old
• Place of Birth: Shorewood, Wisconsin, USA
• Ethnicity: Caucasian
• Religion: Unknown
• Parents: Sean Tutton and Mrs. Tutton
• Siblings: Ryan Tutton, Casey Tutton, Jack Tutton
• Education: High school graduate in Wisconsin; trained in opera and acting, no higher education pursued as music took priority.

Chance Perez

Early Life: From a musical household in California, Chance formed a band called The WVKE as a teen and auditioned for America’s Got Talent before Boy Band, balancing early fatherhood with his passion for singing and songwriting.

• Date of Birth: 10, November 1997
• Age: 27 years old
• Place of Birth: Seal Beach, California, USA
• Ethnicity: Mexican-American
• Religion: Unknown
• Parents: Mr. and Mrs. Perez
• Siblings: Jordan Perez
• Education: High school graduate; no higher education details available, focused on music and modeling early.

Drew Ramos

Early Life: Growing up in the Bronx after his parents’ divorce, Drew busked in New York subways to support his single mother, using YouNow for exposure while struggling with school, before Boy Band scouts reached out.

• Date of Birth: 23, October 1997
• Age: 27 years old
• Place of Birth: Bronx, New York, USA
• Ethnicity: Puerto Rican
• Religion: Unknown
• Parents: Madeline Ramos and Edgar Ramos
• Siblings: Christian Luís Ramos, Lauren Ramos
• Education: Graduated from Bronx Compass High School; no higher education, worked at Chipotle briefly post-graduation.

Sergio Calderon

Early Life: Born to Mexican immigrant parents in California, Sergio pursued music amid cultural challenges, auditioning for Boy Band to share his heritage through performance and songwriting.

• Date of Birth: 11, April 2000
• Age: 25 years old
• Place of Birth: Redwood City, California, USA
• Ethnicity: Mexican-American
• Religion: Unknown
• Parents: Mr. and Mrs. Calderon
• Siblings: Unknown
• Education: High school graduate; limited details, emphasized performing arts over formal studies.

Conor Michael Smith

Early Life: Diagnosed on the autism spectrum at 16, Conor from Ohio auditioned for Boy Band as a rapping violinist, drawing from personal struggles to fuel his unique blend of hip-hop and classical influences.

• Date of Birth: 7, June 1999
• Age: 26 years old
• Place of Birth: Shaker Heights, Ohio, USA
• Ethnicity: Caucasian
• Religion: Unknown
• Parents: Mr. and Mrs. Smith
• Siblings: Unknown
• Education: High school graduate; self-taught violinist and rapper, no higher education confirmed.

Career

In Real Life began their career on August 24, 2017, when Brady Tutton, Chance Perez, Drew Ramos, Sergio Calderon, and Conor Michael Smith were announced as winners of ABC’s Boy Band competition, a show hosted by Rita Ora with judges Nick Carter, Emma Bunton, and Timbaland that started with 30 contestants vying for spots through weekly performances and fan votes.

Each brought distinct skills—Tutton’s classical vocals, Perez’s songwriting, Ramos’s street grit, Calderon’s cultural flair, and Smith’s rapping violin—to form America’s first fan-voted boy band, signing with Hollywood Records and debuting “Eyes Closed” live at the finale, which hit top 10 on iTunes.

Early recognition followed with TV spots on Total Request Live and Good Morning America, plus their holiday EP Feel This Christmas, building buzz through relatable pop-R&B that celebrated their diverse backgrounds.

The group solidified in Los Angeles under manager Johnny Wright, releasing the EP Tonight Belongs to You in 2018 with singles like “I Like You” and “Tattoo (How ‘Bout You),” the latter peaking at No. 29 on Billboard’s Mainstream Top 40.

They toured as openers for the American Idol Live! 2018 and joined events like the Jingle Ball, while navigating label pressures by emphasizing personal stories—Perez’s fatherhood, Smith’s autism journey—in interviews.

By 2019, tracks like “Crazy AF” entered pop radio top 40, and they formed Broke Hero Records after Hollywood dropped them, showcasing resilience amid the competitive boy band revival.

Key accomplishments included their 2019 debut album She Do, compiling hits with new cuts like the title track, plus holiday singles and over a million streams per release, earning Radio Disney nods and fan-voted awards.

Growth involved international travel to places like the Philippines, high-energy live shows that sold out venues, and collaborations highlighting their unity.

Transitions came with the 2020 hiatus announcement, citing a need for solo growth after two years of non-stop promotion, though they wrapped with a final tour leg.

Further along, In Real Life focused on authenticity, using social media for candid fan chats about mental health and diversity, while experimenting with self-production on later singles.

They handled challenges like label changes by leaning on their bond, performing at festivals and releasing “California Christmas” independently.

The hiatus allowed space for individual paths—Ramos in acting, Tutton in production—without fully severing ties, as group memories fueled ongoing support.

In Real Life remains on hiatus since January 2020, with no reunion confirmed but members occasionally teasing collabs; solos dominate, like Perez’s 2021 single “Can’t Trust Summer” and modeling, Tutton’s acting in shows like Riverdale, Ramos’s Broadway pursuits, Calderon’s songwriting, and Smith’s advocacy tracks.

Recent highlights include Smith’s 2020 BLM single “With You in Mind” and collective streams nearing 50 million, their legacy as a fan-forged group influencing modern pop acts with emphasis on real-life stories over polished perfection.

Social Media

• Instagram: @inreallifeofficial
• TikTok: @inreallife
• YouTube: In Real Life

Personal Life

In Real Life members have shared glimpses of their journeys through music and interviews, focusing on growth and support; none are married as of 2025, though one is a father, with relationships kept mostly private to prioritize careers and mental health.

Brady Tutton

• Marriages: Not married
• Children: None
• Height: 5’10”
• Dating History: No public relationships; focuses on family and solo projects like acting, keeping romance off social media.

Chance Perez

• Marriages: Not married
• Children: 1
• Height: 5’9″
• Dating History: Co-parents amicably with his daughter’s mother; single since, emphasizing fatherhood in posts without new romantic details.

Drew Ramos

• Marriages: Not married
• Children: None
• Height: 5’11”
• Dating History: No confirmed relationships; shares family moments with siblings and mom, prioritizing acting and music over public dating.

Sergio Calderon

• Marriages: Not married
• Children: None
• Height: 5’8″
• Dating History: Keeps personal life private; occasional fan interactions but no documented romances, focusing on heritage and songwriting.

Conor Michael Smith

• Marriages: Not married
• Children: None
• Height: 6’0
• Dating History: No public history; openly discusses autism diagnosis and advocacy, with social media centered on music and self-expression rather than relationships.

Discography

• She Do (2019) – Includes singles “Crazy AF” and “Tattoo (How ‘Bout You).”
• Feel This Christmas / I’ll Be Home for Christmas (2017) – Holiday covers.
• Tonight Belongs to You (2018) – Features “I Like You.”
• “Eyes Closed” (2017) – Debut hit.
• “Tattoo (How ‘Bout You)” (2018).
• “I Like You” (2018).
• “Crazy AF” (2019).
• “Somebody Like You” (2019).
• “Hurt for Long” (2019).
• “California Christmas” (2019).

Awards and Nominations

• Radio Disney Music Awards: nomination for Next Big Thing (2018).
• Teen Choice Awards: nomination for Choice Music Group: Boy Band (2018).

Net Worth

In Real Life’s collective net worth is estimated at $4 million as of 2025, earned through their 2017-2020 run including the She Do album, EPs like Tonight Belongs to You, and singles such as “Eyes Closed” that garnered millions of streams and iTunes sales, plus tours opening for American Idol and merchandise.