Tom Pelphrey Biography: Girlfriend, Age, Daughter, Net Worth, Height, Movies & TV Shows, Fiancée

Thomas J. Pelphrey, known professionally as Tom Pelphrey, is an American actor celebrated for his dynamic performances in television, film, and theater.

He first gained prominence for his role as Jonathan Randall on the CBS soap opera Guiding Light (2004–2009), earning two Daytime Emmy Awards for Outstanding Younger Actor.

Pelphrey’s career soared with his critically acclaimed portrayal of Ben Davis in Netflix’s Ozark (2020), which garnered an Emmy nomination.

Profile

• Full Name: Thomas J. Pelphrey
• Stage Name: Tom Pelphrey
• Born: 28, July 1982
• Age: 42 years old
• Birthplace: Howell, New Jersey, U.S.
• Nationality: American
• Occupation: Actor
• Height: 1.88m
• Parents: Laurie Pelphrey, Richard Pelphrey
• Siblings: Robert Pelphrey
• Spouse: None
• Girlfriends: Kaley Cuoco, Gina Tognoni (ex), Stephanie Gatschet (ex), and Jaimie Alexander (ex)
• Children: Matilda Carmine Richie Pelphrey
• Relationship: Engaged
• Net Worth: $2 million

Early Life and Education

Thomas J. Pelphrey was born on July 28, 1982, in Howell, New Jersey, to Laurie Pelphrey and Richard Pelphrey.

He grew up with his brother, Robert Pelphrey, in a supportive family that encouraged his early interest in acting. Pelphrey attended Howell High School’s Fine and Performing Arts Center, graduating in 2000, and later earned a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Acting from Rutgers University’s Mason Gross School of the Arts in 2004.

During his time at Rutgers, he studied Shakespeare at the Globe Theatre in London. His ethnicity is of European descent, and his religious beliefs are not publicly disclosed.

Career

Tom Pelphrey began his career on the CBS soap opera Guiding Light in 2004, playing Jonathan Randall, a complex and volatile character.

His performance earned him four consecutive Daytime Emmy nominations, winning in 2006 and 2008 for Outstanding Younger Actor. After leaving the show in 2009, he joined As the World Turns as Mick Dante, earning an Emmy pre-nomination.

Pelphrey also co-founded the Apothecary Theatre Company in New York, serving as artistic director and producing the critically acclaimed play In God’s Hat (2010), which sold out its run and received praise from The New York Times.

Pelphrey’s transition to broader television and film roles came with his portrayal of Kurt Bunker, a former neo-Nazi seeking redemption, in Banshee (2015–2016), where he prepared by researching the neo-Nazi movement and lifting weights to transform physically.

His role as Ward Meachum in Marvel’s Iron Fist (2017–2018) further showcased his range, followed by his standout performance as Ben Davis in Ozark (2020), which earned him an Emmy nomination for Outstanding Guest Actor and nominations for Critics’ Choice and SAG Awards.

He also played Joseph Mankiewicz in David Fincher’s Mank (2020), a film nominated for 10 Academy Awards.

Pelphrey’s recent projects include starring as Perry Abbott in Outer Range (2022–2024) and Don Crowder in Love & Death (2023), both earning praise for his emotional depth.

He appeared in She Said (2022) and American Murderer (2023) and joined the cast of Marvel’s Daredevil: Born Again (2025). His Broadway credits include End of the Rainbow (2012) as Micky Deans and Fool for Love (2015) alongside Sam Rockwell.

Pelphrey’s ability to inhabit diverse roles across mediums has solidified his reputation as a compelling and versatile actor.

Social Media

• Instagram Handle: @tommypelphrey
• Twitter Handle: @TomPelphrey

Personal Life

Tom Pelphrey has been engaged to actress Kaley Cuoco since August 2024, and they welcomed their daughter, Matilda Carmine Richie Pelphrey, in March 2023.

Previously, he dated actresses Gina Tognoni, Stephanie Gatschet, and Jaimie Alexander. Pelphrey is private about his personal life but has shared his admiration for actors like Gary Oldman, citing a childhood poster of Oldman as inspiration.

He resides in Los Angeles, enjoys staying active, and remains committed to theater through his involvement with the Apothecary Theatre Company, supporting new playwrights.

Filmography

• Guiding Light (2004–2009)
• As the World Turns (2009–2010)
• Junction (2012)
• Excuse Me for Living (2012)
• Banshee (2015–2016)
• Iron Fist (2017–2018)
• Ozark (2020–2022)
• Mank (2020)
• She Said (2022)
• Outer Range (2022–2024)
• American Murderer (2023)
• Love & Death (2023)
• A Man in Full (2024)
• Daredevil: Born Again (2025)

Net Worth

Tom Pelphrey has an estimated net worth of $2 million. His wealth is primarily derived from his acting career, with significant earnings from television roles in Guiding Light, Ozark, and Banshee, as well as film projects like Mank and American Murderer.